People move according to their internal programming — childhood patterns, generational habits, unhealed wounds, cultural norms, and subconscious fears.
And sometimes… their programming clashes with our truth.

That clash feels personal.
But it rarely is..

What I’m starting to realize, though, is the difference in how my heart sees love compared to my mind. They communicate love in different ways. They express it differently. Yet, one cannot exist without the other. They need each other.

Yep you guessed it. At first I thought it was going to steal my peace but its like I just had to figure it out for the sake of me and my son. I was determined to get us through trenches.

With time, everything that happened would normally turn a person rigid in their ways, dull or even loose themselves but I began to see it differently.. I learned change isn’t here to break you, it’s here to shape you! how’s that for character development..

Sometimes, the deepest conversations we have are the ones we hold with ourselves — late at night, when the world is quiet and the masks come off. This reflection came to me in one of those moments: lying in a dark room, scrolling through my feed, questioning everything and somehow finding peace in the process.

If you’ve ever felt like you were walking through the fire alone, I hope this piece reminds you that you’re not. Here’s a piece of my heart, shaped into poetry.

This is a home for the unpolished, the honest, the tender, and the raw. A place where I explore life from angles we don’t always speak about — the quiet truths, the loud emotions, the moments that shape us when no one is watching.

Every post is a conversation with the soul: sometimes gentle, sometimes revealing, sometimes rebellious — but always real.

If you’ve ever felt like your story didn’t fit the script, you’ll find yourself right at home here. Welcome in.

One day you wake up, and something clicks. You want more—you crave passion, purpose, a fresh start. And yeah, that realization can lead to a mental breakdown, especially when you don’t know where to begin. But that space of “not knowing”? That’s where the magic is.

There comes a moment in every soul’s journey where the masks start to slip, the people-pleasing feels heavy, and your spirit whispers: "No more." That moment? That’s the sacred spark of your villain era—and sis, it’s not what they told you it would be.

Let’s dive deep into the understanding that every parent has about themselves.. what differentiates a good parent vs a bad one and if you were to know what would it tell you about your character? Well let’s see because the truth is..Most mothers are both.